For years I have shared a simple philosophy that has served me well for a long time:  “It is not what happens in life, but what you do with it.” My sons, team members, audiences and friends have been reminded of that concept many times over the years. That may sound similar to the notion of the importance of how you react to life’s ups and downs, and experiences, but it is quite different…for a reason. Reactions to life’s circumstances can be temporary, whereas actions taken in response allow for building, strengthening, coping, focusing and developing.

Looking at challenges as not only opportunities to grow, but also as a source of knowledge, tools, skills and wisdom to use in that growth changes perspectives completely. Each experience provides what you need to deal with it and adds resources to your personal “toolbox” for future events. The challenge can be a major personal experience, or a simple problem, or a creative block.

I have found that one of the most important things to do after “something happens,” is to pause and think, “What do I do with THAT?”  I soon see ways to not only manage the near-term but to also build a better future (hours, days, weeks, months or years). The experience reveals new approaches, creative ideas, emboldened actions and sometimes sobering humility, which is an important trait, too.

Every day provides each of us with more tools for a better future.

Check out my photographic project for the year, The Year of 70: Decades of Joy and Thanks.