I have sometimes said, “I haven’t met a microphone that I didn’t like.” Some folks laugh, some raise an eyebrow, but none of them know why. I don’t like the spotlight and I have little interest in fame or being dubbed an influencer. I hope to be remembered, but age has taught me that that is not likely to occur more than about 30 years after I leave this mortal coil. So, why the friendship with a microphone?

Actually, I do not have a thing for microphones, though if there is one in front of me, in my hand or on a stand or clipped to my jacket, it means that I am sharing lessons and stories with an audience that has chosen to be there. They are likely in attendance because they have come to hear what I have to share, and all of my presentations and workshops strive, essentially, to empower people, reveal beauty of life, affirm that they are loved and their life has meaning and purpose. Amidst all that, I guide people how to see their lives in different ways to help them find what they are looking for: creative inspiration, stories to share with family, connections to clients, or when in their lives God was not seen but very present. I share how organizations are better when thought of as a garden, not a bus with people in particular seats. I share how fundraising is ministerial. And more…I believe that all that we need in life to be happy, joy-filled, resilient and strong is available because of the life we have had, not despite it. The microphone is just a tool.

When I do the things described, I am tireless. Other job functions over the years could wear me out and wear me down, but teaching/sharing/guiding is energizing instead of exhausting, similar to when I create images or craft words. I may be depleted at the end of the day, but being in those processes never grinds me down. I miss those opportunities; there are never enough of them.

Philo…the love of. Recognize the things and activities that you love, the things that energize and enlighten you, and never forget. Life is full of struggles and responsibilities that must be met, but that is no reason to ever forsake what you love in life. Ever.

This blog section is titled Philo, which is Greek for loving, as in love of: for example, philanthropy: love of people/humanity; philosophy: love of knowledge or wisdom. My writings for Philo examine “love of” many things — both subtle and sublime — that comprise life and living.

Check out my photographic project for the year, The Year of 70: Decades of Joy and Thanks.